Incredible rich ... to follow Philips's sentences] it is like watching a multi -art magician in action. ' Frances Wilson, Daily Telegraph 'Growth ... Substantial ... Although Philips's refined and powerful book greatly reveals reality as its being, it is not discouraged, on the contrary: it suggests that if we accept that a good part of our lives is the life that is not our lives. Learn to live in full the life we ??actually live in. ' John Gray, Prospect from impressive 'Magazine ... Sometimes Philips's writing of Carol Lewis's writing quality, as the Nakaman Nakamar Nakam began to discover a real interest in our mental health.' Lawrence Scott, Financial Times 'Outstanding ... Phillips, who is always human, never narrows, is one of the writers that this is a pure pleasure to simply hear them.' Roland Tzadorp, Sunday Telegraph Philips identifies the seductive promises in satisfaction, usually end in frustration, and shows how 'we learn to live somewhere on the sequence between the life we ??have and those we would like'. Ian Finley, London Times